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The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts

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3 Responses to “The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts”

  1. Eleanor says:
    187 of 193 people found the following review helpful
    5.0 out of 5 stars
    Learning to Speak, December 23, 2010
    By 
    Eleanor

    The main thought behind this book is that just as people have unique personality preferences, we all have unique preferences for what we find satisfying and motivating when it comes to like. Your like language is the way that you most feel loved and cared for. The problem is most people like how they want to be loved, and that doesn’t tend to align with how their partner wants to be loved. So, you have to learn to speak your partner’s like language. The author also believes that focusing intently on speaking the like languages will rekindle relationships where people don’t even seem to like each other anymore.

    The relationship expert who wrote the book arranges the book into the five like languages, and provides quizzes to help you determine which language you are:

    - Words of Affirmation:
    If this is your like language, you feel most cared for when your partner is open and expressive in telling you how wonderful they reckon you are, how much they be grateful for you, etc.
    Basically, they find ways to hark back you that their world is a better place because you are in it.

    - Acts of Service:
    If your partner offering to watch the kids so you can go to the gym (or relieving you of some other task) gets your heart going, then this is your like language.

    - Affection:
    This like language is just as it sounds. A warm hug, a kiss, touch, and sexual intimacy make you feel most loved when this is your like language.

    - Quality Time:
    This like language is about life together, fully present and engaged in the activity at hand, no matter how trivial.

    - Gifts:
    Your partner taking the time to give you a gift can make you feel appreciated.

    My only critique is that they didn’t focus more on understanding and discussing your emotions. For this you and your partner should read Emotional Intelligence 2.0. It did wonders for my husband and I.

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  2. David says:
    76 of 82 people found the following review helpful
    5.0 out of 5 stars
    Everyone should speak it., December 1, 2010
    By 
    David (South Central, PA) –

    Amazon Verified Buy(What’s this?)

    Dr. Gary Chapman should be nominated for something …..HUGE. This book is a life changer. No, a like changer. Ok, it’s both. What hit me straight away is it made perfect sense. Then, to top that, by putting the information to actual use, I was able to see real results just like he had written about in the book. After assessing my wife as having the “acts of service” like language, I chose to test out how she would react. I’m usually up and out the door to work before she gets up. I know she enjoys a cup of coffee in the morning and the quicker the better. So, one morning I set up the coffee pot and place a sticky note on it stating, “Just turn me on.” She called me at the office and went on and on about how sweet that was and how I scored huge points. The guys in the adjoining cubicles were baffled at my side of the conversation. When I told them about the call, and about the book, they thought it worth looking into a bit more.
    I’ve given over a dozen copies to acquaintances and family tree. I just gave one to my nephew who was recently married. I even sent one to a guy I met on a plane who told me he was engaged. Without exception, people come back and tell me how The 5 Like Languages have made such a positive difference in their relationships. This stuff should be taught in school.

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  3. Susan says:
    56 of 60 people found the following review helpful
    5.0 out of 5 stars
    a repsonse to the terrible reviews, July 19, 2011
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    Susan (NC) –

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    i loved this book (i read the kindle version). a lot of the people who gave it low ratings said it was full of simple ordinary sense. to a point, that’s right. but 1) simple is NOT the same as simple and 2) when your marriage is in quandary, ordinary sense goes out the window and you start trying crazy things to solve the problem. or you can’t even TRY to solve it at all and it spirals out of control. who can reckon clearly when there is that much tension at home? its nice to have someone point out some really basic changes to make.

    my husband and i have COMPLETELY DIFFERENT languages. because of that, we didn’t really be with you what the other person needed because it was SO DIFFERENT from what each of us needed. we didn’t realize how much our actions or lack of actions around a certain “language” affected the other person. now that i be with you, of COURSE it seems like ordinary sense, because it is SO SIMPLE. but i DID need someone else to point it out. thank god for Chapman!

    this book gives PRODUCTIVE, action-oriented things you can physically DO to help your marriage. most of them take not even 5 minutes a day.

    its made a HUGE difference for us. i read it about 7 months ago and my house has been a pleased and peaceful place ever since (even through some heated arguments and differences of opinion). i hope it helps you as much.

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